You cannot be too intrusive on the first date, but you definitely want to get some good information on the person you are sitting across from. They will more than likely be on their guard for any major questions so asking them straight off will not do you much good. You are going to have to get them comfortable and at the same time get some insight as to who they are. The right questions will have them opening up to you in no time at all. That couple with a sense of humour.
One of the best dating conversation topics is to usually ask about their family. You will get an idea right off about the person because they will go into a litany about everyone or they will tense up and try to get you to the next topic. This will give you a general idea of how soon you are going to be danced in front of the family or have to meet the parents, if you get her into you.
Another great starter is to ask about where they went to school and what they studied. You are going to be able to figure out how hard they work and what they are looking for out of life and a mate by this one simple question. If they are 25 years old and they start talking about high school, get the hell out of there. You are going to have to be the primary bread winner in that relationship and in today's economy, there just isn't room for anyone to ride your coat tails financially.
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